Monday, August 27, 2007

The Top Ten Reasons to Flirt Online

Flirting online, whether you are on MySpace, FriendFinder using instant messaging software, or simply via e-mail, is fun. In fact, men and women alike have found it is a great deal of fun to leave flirty e-mails that tease the brain as well as the senses.

Why is flirting online so much fun? Here are the top ten reasons.

Electronic flirting is not as intimidating as flirting in person.

Many people find that flirting online is less intimidating because you are not as self-conscious on the Internet. You are flirting from the safety and security of your own home.

You can flirt any time, day or night.

Flirting online knows no time zone or standard clock. If you are in a sexy mood late at night or first thing in the morning, you can leave a flirty e-mail or message for someone without interrupting them.

You don’t have to worry about your appearance.

Online flirting can be successfully done while in a suit or in your bathrobe, unlike meeting someone for dinner. Unless you have a web cam, it’s all the same to the person receiving the message.
You can carefully plan your thoughts before writing them – unlike saying them unrehearsed.

Wouldn’t it be nice if we had a delete key for real-life speaking situations? Flirting online allows you to have a better sense of control over your message and your approach.
You can surprise someone with a sexy e-mail message.

When you are with an intimate friend, it is a given you will flirt. A flirty e-mail is unexpected and is a thrill to receive.

You can flirt with a wide variety of people online, whereas you may be limited in social settings.

In a social setting, the opportunity for flirting may not come up. You could be in a crowded place, and you could want to flirt with the best looking person in the room. Doing so would leave you blushing and perhaps at a loss for words. Online, when you aren’t standing right in front of the great looking guy or girl, is the perfect chance for you to flirt like crazy.

There are no time commitments to flirting online.

You can sign on to the Internet and send a flirty instant message in under five minutes. Getting dressed up, going out, meeting the person, and carrying on a conversation can take hours.
Flirting online is practically free.

Aside from a DSL or broadband Internet statement each month (which you would have regardless of whether or not you were flirting online), teasing people online is free. Going out costs money; flirting online is the budget-conscious thing to do.

You have the person’s undivided attention.

Chatting online or sending e-mails is great because you aren’t competing with other people for the person’s attention. Usually, if the time is not right, the reader will return to the message or e-mail at a more convenient time. The message is stated and can be better interpreted than it would have been if you’d said it in a crowded room.

You can go back and re-read the sensual e-mails you’ve gotten.

In real life settings, we rely on memories to recall sexy conversations. Online chats can be reviewed and saved for future reference. Wouldn’t it be nice if we could document our offline steamy chat?

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